Saturday, January 06, 2007

"This responsibility [of making a home] rests upon both the parents. There are some fathers who seem to forget that any share of the burden and duty of making the home belong to them. They leave it all to the mothers. They come and go as if they were scarcely more than boarders in their own house, with no active interest in the welfare of their children. They plead the demands of business as the excuse for their neglect. But where is the business that is so important as to justify a man's evasion of the sacred duties to which he owes to his family? There cannot be any other work in this world which a man can do that will excuse him at God's bar for having neglected the care of his own home and the training of his own children. No success in any department of the world's work can positively atone for failure here. No piling up of this world's treasures can compensate a man for the loss of those incomparable jewels, his own children."

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At 1/06/2007, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree that making a home is a two parent process. However, isn't this quote a little harsh and one-sided on the issue. It is looking at the issue from a completely negative perspective. What, is this person a husband/man hater or something? For shame, those evil husbands getting up before the dawn and rushing off to work in order that bills might be paid, that the family might eat, that the children might be clothed and provided for, that the wife and children might have the comforts of home, that the family might afford to attend Bible Schools, get an education, have transportation, etc. Yes, a husband must attend to the Spiritual wellfare of the family, but do not condemn him for providing for the natural as well, without which the spiritual can not be approached.

 
At 1/07/2007, Blogger thusia said...

A male wrote this quote about fathers. Yes, a father is to provide for his family's temporal needs, however, the author is sounding a warning. God's standards require more than providing a steady income. A father is required to take an active role as the spiritual leader of the home - a representation of the relationship of Christ and the ecclesia.

 
At 1/07/2007, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Happy and rich are the wife and children in a shack of a home that is filled with the strength and loving leadership of a devoted father. But woe to the home that is full of material wealth, however lacks the father's presence and spiritual influence.

Yes, a husband and father's duty is to provide for the family. Often this requires long hours and sacrifice on his part. This quote likely was written with the men in mind who put everything into the "demands of business" or focuses on his career while completely neglecting his responsibility to lead his family in the ways of Yahweh.

Unfortunately, the author felt the need to express this warning. Nothing can replace a father's presence within the home. When a father invests spiritually in his family, he is "there" even when working those long hours on the job. A dedicated father follows the admonition found in Deut. 6:7-9.

 

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