there's a right kind of culture

"A thoughtless, selfish, snappish, fretful, overbearing, and dictatorial young woman might take prizes at school, may excel at music, and travel round the world, but the more she knows, the less culture she has. The commonist country girl, with good health, an open brain, and a warm, unselfish, patient, self-controlled disposition, is a hundredfold more cultured than the boarding-school graduate, who is fractious with her mother, cross with her sisters, or knows too much to associate with other girls. Disposition is culture. Health is the soil, intelligence the branches, and disposition the leaves, buds and blossoms - the robe of living beauty, fragrance, and sweetness with which a young woman is to clothe her life. Without heart-culture the finest mental culture is like a tree with nothing but cold, lifeless limbs."

continuing ed

"There is such a thing as adult education, and we may learn from everybody and everything until the day of our death, so that nothing is more ridiculous than to speak of a girl's education being 'finished' when she leaves school."

a servant's heart

"A young maiden who is practicing a servant's heart feels worthless when she is unable to serve."

God uses both

"The Scriptures are full of the accounts of righteous women who performed quite spectacular tasks, as well as quiet, unassuming women, and all were in the plan and purpose of God. Without them there would be a great deal lacking."

open your eyes & take care

"Let sisters open their eyes to the ungodly trend of these days, and let them take care that they will not be swept along by the beguiling and insidious influence of the world around them."

follow the example

"Let the adopted daughters of the house of Israel, in these latter days, follow the example of holy women of old, in supplicating the Most Holy in whatever matters they have need, let them accept the help of God, and let their songs of thanksgiving ascend."

great advantage

"Many of the things that worldly women think essential are nonessential to us. And here comes one great advantage of not having friends of the world. By not having worldly friends, we are at liberty to do our part better. Worldly friends are a snare. They look at things from the opposite side from what a woman does who is striving to be like Christ."

beginning of honor

"A daughter must be grateful to her [earthly] father--for giving her life; if he has fed and clothed her; if he has ever done anything kind for her--because gratitude is the beginning of honor."

humble heart

"A woman with a humble heart doesn't seek her own glory and will not parade her greatness before others or try to 'prove herself.' Rather, she realizes she is nothing without God and seeks His glory alone."

nearly impossible

"How is one to prepare for being a suitable helpmeet, if your entire life up until marriage has been filled with a me-first mentality? It is nearly impossible to learn selfless service if we have not learned to practice it prior to marriage."

not biblical virtues

"To be self-sufficient and independent are not biblical virtues for women."

what would your life-chronicle say about you?

"Published or unpublished, this woman's life is a goodly chronicle, the title page of which may be read in her quiet countenance; her manner, settled, cheerful, and at ease; her unfailing in all things and in all people. You will rarely find she thinks much about herself; she has never had time for it. And this her life-chronicle, which, out of its very fullness, has taught that the more one does, the more one finds to do--she will never flourish in your face, or the face of heaven, as something uncommonly virtuous and extraordinary. She knows that, after all, she has simply done what it was her duty to do."

as a brook in the desert

"[Sisters], may I remind you to read your Bibles? Not merely a few hurried texts in the early morning, and a few verses at night when you are half asleep, but with a listening ear, and with a reverent eye, realizing that you are in God's presence and that He is speaking to you, read the Divine word. Do not omit the old Testament, nor forget the new: one is the following out of the other, and the two are inter-dependent... come to the Books, as they who are thirsty come to a well, as they who are weary, to a pillow, as they who are afraid to a refuge. Learn the Bible by heart... and be assured the day will come, when the precious bits of truth, will be to you as the fine gold and the fadeless gem. Choose where you will: the whole Bible is God's inspired message to humanity and you cannot read a single book without profit. Whatever other literature be noble this is nobler; whatever else be full of sweetness and light, this Book of God surpasses it. It is a lamp on a dark night, as a brook in the desert, as a flower in the fallow field, as a star in the sky."

woman of quality

"Picture a girl [or woman] that radiates dignity, regal serenity, respectfulness, grace, a gentle and quiet voice, poise, discretion, self-command, sincerity, peace, compassion, cheerfulness, and humility. That girl would stand out as a woman of quality."

one thing is needful

"There is no mistake as to which is to have pre-eminence in our hearts and lives. Our Lord and Master is our authority here, as in everything. 'One thing is needful', said he to Martha; and that would be his answer to many of his sisters now if they could hear his voice in reply to many anxieties. Many of the things they think needful to be done, he would not think needful, that is to say, not indispencable. ... We have to study to get a truer view of the present than is presented by our external surroundings, otherwise the sisters [today] are just as much in danger as was Martha of the 1st, of giving too much prominence to that which is of a merely passing nature, and leaving too little time and energy for the things of Christ."

known for studying

"A true woman will be known for her practice of studying God's Word with the intent of being edified, challenged, and sanctified."

subordination & subjection

"Subordination and subjection are the role of the woman established by an all-wise Heavenly Father. She best functions in this role. Her complement is her husband, to whom God has given the responsibility of headship. He best functions in this role as headship. By wise and sympathetic leadership on his part, the husband can assist his wife to overcome the pressures of a Godless world..."

a happy face

"The cheerful countenance, the noble brow, the sunny smile, the compassionate eye, who is not attracted to these powerful charms? A happy face may be a very plain face, but who, with discerning judgment of these matters, would exchange it for the soul-less artificial beauty, so called, of the vain daughters of men? 'Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman that fears Yahweh she shall be praised" {Proverbs 31:30}.

modesty

"Modesty: natural delicacy... regarding personal charms; purity of thought and manners; due regard for propriety in speech or action."

in need

"The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity."